Ep.84 | The Cost of Being Everything to Everyone: Setting Boundaries & People-Pleasing, with Shay & Mariah

Dec 10

If you sometimes feel like setting boundaries is hard, or you’re curious about how the nuances show up in subtle ways, this episode is for you!

Join Shay & me in this conversation as we explore the cost of being everything to everyone, especially when it comes to different situations & what we’re choosing to do about it…

We hope you enjoy! ☺️

Included in this episode:

➡️ Exploring the nuances & layers of different situations
➡️ The mistake most of us make when we start setting boundaries
➡️ Noticing the energy *behind* the boundary
➡️ Getting disconnected from what we ACTUALLY want
➡️ The warning signs & how this shows up for us
➡️ Choosing ourselves internally, first
➡️ Letting people do their own tasks
➡️ Not being the sacrificial lamb
➡️ How this shows up with family, friends, and business
➡️ Strengthening the muscle & being an example for others
➡️ The consistent practice that we’re trying to implement
➡️ The book we can’t remember the name of :)

Additional Links & Resources Mentioned:

>> The Courage to Be Disliked (Book)
>> FREE Meditation pack (includes dream day meditation)
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>> Get 20% off your next contract with The Contract Shop

Learn more about Curiously Guided:

Curiously Guided: the podcast for intentional business owners & curious minds. Where the outer work meets the inner work, so we can create a life, business, and career that feels deeply fulfilling & wildly aligned.

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Connect with The hosts’ Shay + Mariah:

👉 Shay: saleswithshay.com | @saleswithshay

👉 Mariah: mariahmagazine.com | @mariahmagazineco

Mariah Magazine

Mariah is an award-winning Organic SEO Consultant & Online Business Educator for entrepreneurs, and host of a top 10% podcast; Curiously Guided. She supports business owners & founders in diversifying their online digital marketing strategies so they can grow their brands in a way that *actually* feels GOOD for them, and aligns with their strengths. Mariah’s a firm believer that showing up on Google and organically marketing your business doesn’t have to be as difficult & overwhelming as everyone makes it. With 8+ years of experience as an entrepreneur in the online marketing space, she’s helped over 150+ clients get their websites found on Google by implementing a strategy that feels both doable AND aligned.

https://www.mariahmagazine.com